Monday, December 22, 2008

eQuAl & OpPoSiTe

“i dont require ppl like u ….in my life….thnx a lot for everything ….u will never stop commenting”

Scene Setup: The background music was that of K3G title track,front end was a so called Pentium 4 crt box,512MB ram HP7540 machine whose keyboard strokes are slower than a typical Jagjit singh ghazal lyric, and the icing on the cake was the coffee machine in my bay has been removed making this lazy bum move one floor down to get the muddy greasy coffee...So emotions draining out like a Subhash ghai's Yaadein...(havent seen Yuvraaj still)

No this is not a liner told to/by SRK in his movie Rab Ne by/to Anushka, neither was this a liner told to/by Hritik in his movie Kaho na Pyaar hai by/to to Amisha.

May be this sounds similar to what Akshay Khanna says to Aamir in DCH.

And today I played my role of being Aamir. This was what a Sweet friend of mine had to say about me.

I felt aghast partly because my comments hurt my friend and partly because my friend hurt me with these lines. Thank You Mr. Newton for prepostering this effect long back by means of your famous “Newtons 3rd law – For every action there is EQUAL & OPPOSITE reaction”

It feels so bad that your friend doesn’t understand that you were trying to cheer them up bcoz u cant see them feel sad (as if your bike’s 2 tyres got punctured amidst a highway with no access for help to shout…phew such Ghatiya B grade sa cmparison $!@#$!@^# but cant help it).

Nevertheless I am happy that at least by yelling out at me, my friend became normal…back again to casual work…

That makes me realize may be during times of distress we yell/curse/are tempered with our family,frenz,love,collegue…. some words can’t be taken back.

In particular when you are in friendship, you never help your friends, you do things to make them feel happy or to get that smile onto their face.

No Room for “Thanks” or "Sorry" ( words that bring the greatest distance between frenz)

Reminds me of the song from Rockford….
“Yaaro Dosti…badi hi khoobsurat hai…
yeh na ho toh kya phir yeh zindagi hai…koi tho hai….”

4 comments:

  1. mama evadra vadu.. who is that fellow...chepra..

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  2. enthaina this person is my frend ra....so no comments...

    Gud to see u here...:-)

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  3. 'words cannot be taken back'
    ...but sumtime it happens in friendship or in every relation..when tht bad times went be together n ..be happy to forgive a frnd is also necessary as some rights he/she is also having on u

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  4. Hey Divya..Agreed upon...
    justw as wondering how pl react when i shout at my caring ones...with little restraint in usage of words...

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